so i have this friend that i have feelings for (which feels weird cause im aroace) and i cant tell if they have feelings to cause like it seems like they care for me but i cant tell cause we have a weird friendship for example im able to make jokes like lemme grab that fat ass but it feels weird doing it (i have done it twice cause they were saying i was all bark no bite but it felt weird) and like they care for me i think cause they once like on wednesday or tuesday they asked my friend if i was ok and if like i was upset and then like a week before that i was trying not to annoy them and they came up to me and said like are you mad at me or like did i do something to piss you off or are you just upset at something else are you like ok and stuff and like theyve complemented me once but it wasnt even a complement ( i had said "man i look like shit " and they just reasured me that i looked good and wasnt ugly [even though i am]) and the only other things i would count as a complement would be them saying they like my shoes or shirt but like thats because they actually looked cool and not me looking good or cool and litteraly again i can slap their ass but i cant hug them cause that feels more wierd than slapping their ass but i really want to hug and cuddle them but like urgh it feels weird and they make comments for context they did this once and its cause i was quoting class of 0'9 with the "flash me a tittie bitch" or [this one aint a quote but its something i have confirmed they are fine with me saying] "lemme grab them titties" and the other day they clapped back with "what if i grabbed your tittes!?" and i was just flabber gasted cause like 10 minuets earlier we were just yapping about my fit and they just straight up said "you look like my sister if she were short" and like bro why did you say that of all things cause like they also whilst walking me home they had said im all bark no bite (again) and so i said its cause i feel like im making them uncomfotable if i did that and they litteraly said "man have you seen what the others do to me you can slap my ass i litteraly dont care" but the last time someone else tried to slap it (not me) he like swatted them away and looked like he didnt like it and im just so fugging confused and can someone tell me if they like me or not